In all seriousness, we're all prideful. Some of us more than others. And it's because of our pride that we sometimes fail to admit when we're wrong or are blinded and cannot see our own faults. Sadly, we can be a little full of ourselves at times.
The words, "I'm sorry," are used sparingly and excuses fill their gaps. It's sad, but we're all guilty of this barter.
So, what's so scary about being wrong? It looks different for everyone, but probably a combination of many things. Perhaps the most scary is the responsibility involved. In order to be wrong, we must first be responsible. And in order to be responsible, we must first be aware of ourselves: our words and our actions, or lack-thereof.
Admitting we're wrong is the first step in making things right. Admitting we're wrong requires humility and shows true respect for those our wrong-doings may have affected. Admitting we're wrong transforms weakness into strength.
So what's the deal, Victoria? Did someone piss you off and not apologize when they should have? Yeah, me. I shouldn't point out someone else's faults without first looking at my own. Is this easier said than done? Most definitely. But the world would be a much better place if excuses were used less and "I'm sorry" was used more.
The next time an opportunity presents itself, may we humbly check our pride at the door. Hopefully, Southwest has available seats - our extra bags fly free!
SIDENOTE: I miss the beach and I am in desperate need of a tan. I pray humility shines light on our pride and the sun shines light on my body, sooner than later.
:: victoria marie
1 comment:
love you. Belle's lucky to have you.
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